Do you have days when you are very worried about something?
Or are you upset because you are not succeeding in what you have planned?
Yes, it happens to me too!
And on one of those recent days, I suddenly remembered a time when I was in school.
I remembered how worried I was about grades, tests, exams, and other things. I was so worried that I got hysterical.
And now I look at my life and I ask myself: "What did this event mean in my life?" "Was it worth worrying so much about?"
And I understand that from today's point of view, this event did not matter at all. It did not in any way affect the outcome in the future, that is, mine today. Although at that moment it seemed to me that it was determining my future.
What did the grade for math test mean if my life wasn't about math now?
What did it matter, what would my classmates think of me if I didn't talk to them now?
What did the unrequited first love matter, after which I was depressed for half a year? Was it worth suffering for half a year if I had a wonderful and happy relationship now? Etc.
But at that moment, the disgrace in front of the board or the end of a relationship was the end of life!
Has such a thing happened to you?
And now look at your current life!
And you will see the same thing:
You worry about what others will think of you ...
You're worried about your job ...
You're worried you're late for something ....
You are worried that you have lost an order or a customer ...
What else are you worried about?
And now look at your problems from the perspective of the future!
Do you understand that in the future your current worries will be meaningless.
It turns out that here and now you are unhappy and you are losing your life because of something that will cost a penny in the future. Although, of course, your brain will now convince you, they depend on this event for your entire future life!
In this case, just remember your worries 10 years ago and you will see that your life did not depend on this event at all, although you were just as worried as you are now.
There are very few things that are really worth worrying about!
And, interestingly, it is about these things that we hardly worry.
Personally, I realized that it was worth more to "worry" about my feeling of love for the world around me, for myself, people, my loved one! And to develop this feeling more! Because from the point of view of the universe, love certainly makes sense!
I wrote this article to help you look at your life from a different perspective! Do it now!
Or are you upset because you are not succeeding in what you have planned?
Yes, it happens to me too!
And on one of those recent days, I suddenly remembered a time when I was in school.
I remembered how worried I was about grades, tests, exams, and other things. I was so worried that I got hysterical.
And now I look at my life and I ask myself: "What did this event mean in my life?" "Was it worth worrying so much about?"
And I understand that from today's point of view, this event did not matter at all. It did not in any way affect the outcome in the future, that is, mine today. Although at that moment it seemed to me that it was determining my future.
What did the grade for math test mean if my life wasn't about math now?
What did it matter, what would my classmates think of me if I didn't talk to them now?
What did the unrequited first love matter, after which I was depressed for half a year? Was it worth suffering for half a year if I had a wonderful and happy relationship now? Etc.
But at that moment, the disgrace in front of the board or the end of a relationship was the end of life!
Has such a thing happened to you?
And now look at your current life!
And you will see the same thing:
You worry about what others will think of you ...
You're worried about your job ...
You're worried you're late for something ....
You are worried that you have lost an order or a customer ...
What else are you worried about?
And now look at your problems from the perspective of the future!
Do you understand that in the future your current worries will be meaningless.
It turns out that here and now you are unhappy and you are losing your life because of something that will cost a penny in the future. Although, of course, your brain will now convince you, they depend on this event for your entire future life!
In this case, just remember your worries 10 years ago and you will see that your life did not depend on this event at all, although you were just as worried as you are now.
There are very few things that are really worth worrying about!
And, interestingly, it is about these things that we hardly worry.
Personally, I realized that it was worth more to "worry" about my feeling of love for the world around me, for myself, people, my loved one! And to develop this feeling more! Because from the point of view of the universe, love certainly makes sense!
I wrote this article to help you look at your life from a different perspective! Do it now!
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