Why life doesn't change?

What governs your life?
Your life is ruled by emotions and feelings!
It doesn't matter what you know or what you can do.
The important thing is what you want!
One can always learn what one wants.
Your future is created by what you feel today.
Feelings are transformed into material reality.
And reality, in turn, gives feelings.
But you can create feelings right now and whatever, and you can't create reality so quickly.
This makes it much easier to create feelings. And feelings will build reality.
And the ability to work on developing the necessary feelings, I consider one of the most important habits in life.
Which feelings do I consider key?
The desire (aspiration)
Love
Faith
Acceptance (the ability to accept what is happening)
Self-realization
Growth and development

Why does a person's life not change for 5-10 years and remain the same?
Do you think he doesn't know how to change it or how to make money or he doesn't have enough abilities and talents?
He lacks some feelings that determine the course of events. Namely: the necessary feelings and emotions!
In this case, the feelings of desire and faith.
Our brain is unique and ingenious! There is no task in the world that he cannot solve!
However, he is "lazy." If he can do nothing, he will not do it.
It is the feeling of desire that will "stop" the brain from thinking and inventing!
Faith will make him continue in difficult times.
You've probably heard the phrase "the brain is boiling." Thus, exactly, the brain must boil over the search and realization of ideas!
And you will boil precisely because of desire.
This is the strongest state of creation.
A passionate strong sense of desire will make the brain work.
Why can't a person make as much money as he wants?
You think he doesn't know how to do it.
No. People always know or can understand. Everyone's knowledge is more than enough.
"I don't know how" is the most famous excuse for doing nothing. But that's actually the reason. The reason lies in insufficient desire and insufficient faith.
The thing is that people have little desire and do not believe. And when they want something badly, they find the easiest and easiest way to do what they want, for example, take a loan or find money instead of making it.
He is not looking for easy ways. Easy ways "kill" you and dissipate your power!
Easy roads are like cheese in a mousetrap.
Make yourself achieve your dream or goal on your own and honestly!
 You don't have to make your life easier! He who walks the easy way remains weak.
Those who choose the longer and more complicated paths become strong.
Many people want to start making a lot of money right away without giving anything in return.
If you want a lot of money - you have to work hard.
And the most harmonious way to make money is to do your favorite job, to enjoy it, to bring happiness and joy to others and to receive money for it.
It's a long way, you have to find this favorite activity first. Then start dealing with it. To develop and expand it. To learn from mistakes and move forward.
But the paradox is that this long road leads to real long-term results and a full life faster than easy and fast roads. Thanks to your path you will receive everything: growth and development, wisdom, self-realization, success, happiness, money, recognition, freedom and more.
At one time I made a choice in life: I want to live in complete abundance. I want to be rich, happy, to love and be loved, to have a lot of free time, to realize myself and to influence people's lives. And to get to that abundance, I was willing to work hard. To work on myself, to work on my work, to learn and develop, to overcome myself, complexities and fear.
And I never once regretted my choice.
I placed an order. The universe showed me the way. And I accepted it.
I recommend the same to you. Say what you want in life? Be prepared to work well. And don't bargain with life to ease your conditions.
Just accept and learn.
The universe will fulfill all your desires, just be ready to go the way.
And first be ready to see this time.
Tell me now what you want!
By visualizing or immersing yourself in this dream, this desire is strengthened.
Feel how you want this even more! Yes, you need to strengthen this desire!
Feel how you want this even more! Yes, you need to strengthen this desire!
Do you believe you can do it?
And now, in a state of this strong desire, start looking for a way to get to it. And remember: reject the easy ways!
I believe in work! And the more work there is on the road, the more real it is!
When you find a way, keep increasing your desire to act according to the way you have invented. When you encounter complexities and problems on the road, remember to strengthen your desire even more and to believe even more in order to keep the focus on the desires, and not to get into problems.
What you feel now determines whether your dream will be with you in the future or not.
Learn to pay attention to your feelings. And work on them. Amplify positive and creative feelings and ignore negative and destructive feelings. 

How to get rid of fear

How to get rid of fear - quickly and forever?
Fear is man's main enemy!
It is precisely fear that prevents a person from acting when necessary.
Fear prevents you from finishing the old and starting a new one.
Fear is the "killer" of dreams!
Do you agree?
I do not agree!
Fear can be your best friend!
It is fear that shows a person the right path.
Exactly what a person is most afraid of, he must do!
Fear helps a person to grow and develop!
Fear motivates you to act and move forward!
And does your fear stop you or speed you up?
You know, before, like other people, fear stopped me!
But then I realized the secret!
And since then, fear has helped me!
And here's the secret:
You don't have to fight fear!
You will never beat him that way. You will only lose your strength, and the fear will become even stronger.
You should not get rid of it and ignore it.
When I started working on personal growth, I read in books about how to get rid of fear. And I found the answer: you must act in spite of fear. Yes, it's effective theirs, but try ..
It was hard for me!
And I started looking for my own way. And I found it!
Fear must be accepted!
Everything that fear tells you you have to accept!
You must have a single answer to everything that fear draws and "tells" you. And that answer is "good."
Fear will tell you: "There will be nothing to live with!", "You will lose everything you have", "You will be poor", "This will be a failure" ...
And you have to accept all these answers and say "okay."
At this point, the fear loses its power!
People think that once you agree, it will happen in life. To be honest, it never happened to me! And people begin to object to fear, they start arguing and arguing, but the more they fight and resist, the stronger the fear becomes and absorbs a person's will.
Has it ever occurred to you that the more you resist fear, the stronger it becomes?
Fear is a part of you!
And the more you resist, the more you ignite conflict inside you! You fight with yourself. And the more you fight, the more you lose.
Resistance and struggle are not the best advisor in how to get rid of that fear.
That's why don't waste your energy on fighting with yourself.
Just agree right away.
So, the first step is to accept the fear.
The second step is to focus on the goals.
The third step is to draw up an action plan.
The fourth step is to take the first step!
The fifth step is to continue the steps!
With each new step, fear will lose its power! In the beginning, of course, he will resist and tell you even more terrible arguments to provoke you into confrontation. And your task is to repeat "well" and do what you have planned!
Learn to agree with your fear!
And keep acting.
I read in the books that you have to act despite the fear, but I couldn't figure out how?
There was a constant war in my head.
While I was asking myself the question "How to get rid of fear?" the answer was nearby.
When I realized that I did not have to fight and resist, I gained peace.
The model is very simple: you do what you have planned and you agree with everything that fear tells you!
And do you know what's amazing?
When he realizes that you are constantly ignoring him and you always agree, he will stop talking to you.
To be honest, I did not get rid of the fear 100%, it still lives in me.
But now we are friends. When he suddenly appears, I thank him and say "okay."
Instead of thinking about how to get rid of fear - just make friends with it!
Life alone will not change! Only you can change something! Everything is in your hands! If you don't like what you have now, it's time to make new decisions! 

How do life's priorities create life?

What are life priorities?
Have you thought about what is really important to you?
What are your priorities in life?
It doesn't matter if you think about it or not, the brain has in any case arranged these priorities for itself. If you understand the sequence correctly, you control the work of your brain and your life, if not - then your brain controls you and your life.
What am I talking about?
What is more important to you:
- money or family?
- free time or a sense of self-importance?
- happiness or peace?
- leisure or business / work?
- personal growth or travel?
What are your life priorities?
- Freedom (free time)
- Happiness
- Self-realization
- Joy
"Delight."
- Calm down
- Good luck
- Reliability
- Comfort
- Passion
- Cosiness
.... (you can add any feelings you think are necessary)
What areas of life are there?
Business / career / job
Money
Family (woman / man, children)
Travel
Friends / acquaintances
Health (beauty, energy, sports)
Material goods
Rest / Entertainment
Personal growth and development
... (you can add any areas you deem necessary)
And now to understand how priorities affect a person's life:
Imagine a man with such priorities:
1. Money. 2. Business. 3. Entertainment. 4. Recreation. 5. Health. 6. Family
....
What do you think will happen to his family? Rather not at all.
How do you think it will be with the money? Yes, he will have money. And, given the second priority, there will be more business (of course, if for this man in the first place are the feelings that correspond to the businessman)
Imagine, please, a woman with the following priority areas:
1. Family. 2. Health. 3. Personal growth. 4. Work. 5. Travel. 6. Rest.
Obviously, such a woman will have a good family. She will be healthy and beautiful. She will also be wise because she will be concerned with personal growth.
However, money may not be good. It doesn't matter, because the man will provide for the family.
Do you see how life's priorities define life?
But !!!
Women can say: «I do not agree! And for me, family comes first. However, I have no family! »
The men will say in response: "For me, business comes first, but I have not created my own business so far."
Others will say: "Money is the number one priority, but I have no money ..."
I will answer these questions. Everything is very easy.
First of all, I will not agree that for a person something can come first, and it will not exist. This means only one thing: what a person thinks and what is in reality are completely different things. She thinks family comes first, when in fact it doesn't. Reality always shows the truth!
Here is what is most likely to happen to this woman: she says that the family comes first and she sits at work all day. Obviously, work comes first for her.
Priorities are not what you want to be, or think is a priority. The priority is how much time and energy you spend on a particular area.
Second, the important thing is that a certain priority area corresponds to the necessary priority feelings.
If for a man the field of business is in the first place, then the feeling of calm cannot be in the first place with him! Business and relationships are built on calm.
The man says that money comes first with him, but he doesn't have it ...
If we look at his life, it turns out that he has been working at the same job for 5 years, he receives 1000-3000 BGN per month and he knows perfectly well that he will not earn more! And he continues to work on that job.
This means that his feelings of calm and comfort come first, and these are not the feelings you need for money at all!
Of course, he will say: "How can I leave the job, I have to pay loans!"
But that does not change the essence of things.
That's how easy everything is!
And here's another important thing:
You choose a priority, then you develop the feelings that are needed for that priority!
If you do not develop feelings, but let everything go by itself, then life's priorities are built by themselves, and life flows randomly. It turns out that you think one thing, and the result is another.
Your feelings rule your life.
7 years ago, when I was poor, I went to work, I put business in priority. I had a lot of fears, I don't like to go outside the comfort zone, I was soft, I really appreciated the peace and harmony, etc.
But I understood that business requires courage, the ability to step out of the comfort zone, firmness, determination, action, etc.
I began to develop these qualities, I began to do what I feared, and as a result, everything happened.
Everyone says they want a lot of money, but only a few do what corresponds to big money. The others leave everything immediately or gradually and justify themselves.
Some women look for the man of their dreams, despite all the disappointments and failures, forgive, endure, build relationships, and others simply say: "All decent men are already busy ..." - and that is, they have nothing to do.
They justify their failure and are free.
One can always justify oneself, but the result will not get better.
Only units are ready for real personal growth!
Life is the best teacher, but it teaches painfully and cruelly. And you often need an assistant teacher to help you learn from life!
Are you ready for real personal growth?
The key word here is "growth"! And growth is never comfortable!
There is always a force of friction that hinders growth. Only the strong can withstand it and move forward.
Successful people are creative people. They create what they want. Unsuccessful people are people who wait and hope.
I never understood "hope." It doesn't make sense!
Either you believe and create, or it doesn't exist.
Take your life in your hands!
Nothing will change until you stand up and change that! Yes, it will be hard, it will hurt a lot emotionally, but I assure you that you will win!
And the victory is worth it!
He is not looking for easy ways. They lead to the "dump". They just start in the "elite areas", and it seems that everything will be so. But sooner or later they will take you to the "dump"!
The hard roads start in the "dump" or lead through the "dump" and look very awful, but always lead to the "elite areas" of life!
There is power in you! There is potential in you! You already have everything!
You can achieve what you see in your imagination. Otherwise you wouldn't have seen it.
Thanks to the imagination, the universe shows you one of the possible lines of your future life. But whether this line will become yours, you decide here and now!
Only you decide whether you will allow the universe to help you. Or you will come up with one of the millions of excuses why not now.
You decide! This is your life! And your life priorities!

Forget about the problems!

How to get rid of problems?
Why do you think people are more inclined to think about problems than about dreams and goals?
Why do people think more about how to get rid of loans than how to make money? Although if a person makes money, he will get rid of the loans.
Why do parents protect the child more than motivate him for new achievements?
Why do so many people in a relationship blame their loved ones more than they rejoice and appreciate what the partner is doing?
And everything is very easy:
Our brain works on certain principles! And one of its basic principles is to save lives and protect people!
And that is why it is much more important for our brain to avoid pain (including emotional pain) than to gain joy.
Our brain always strives to think about what causes the most emotions and feelings. And it doesn't matter if it evokes positive and negative emotions.
Therefore, since problems to one degree or another pose a danger to a person, our brain thinks more, the brain thinks exactly about the problems.
People are thinking about how to get rid of problems and looking for ways to get rid of problems!
And not about the ways to realize dreams and desires.
Yes, for our brain, safety is more important than happiness and wealth.
But I have a question for you: who is the boss in the house? You or your brain?
Despite his priority for safety over everything else, he obeys you.
You and your brain are different things.
And you can make him do what you need him to do, including go into danger for happiness and wealth.
How to make it?
The easiest way is to make a decision! Strong emotional decision!
Also, our brain has great flexibility. It can be readjusted and changed. That's why you can change the natural priorities for your brain! This is exactly what the rich and happy people did. They put wealth and happiness above safety! They have learned to do what is scary for them and to step out of their comfort zone. The ability to act, despite fear, can develop!
What do you need to achieve happiness and wealth?
To ignite the positive emotions associated with dreams, goals and desires, brighter than the negative emotions associated with fear and safety.
You have to learn to want harder than to be afraid.
The positive emotions associated with dreams and goals need to be stronger than the negative ones associated with fear.
When motivation is strong, problems don't matter!
How to do this?
To train to want!
To train to keep the attention on dreams and goals.
Problems will throw you off balance! They will grab your attention, but you have to put it back on your dreams and goals!
Daily activities and routine will also focus on the little things and kill your motivation, but it is important to learn to return to your dreams and goals.
First find something you really want!
And then learn to go back to thinking about it!
What has always worked for me?
Given that I perceive the world through feelings, my motivation has always been reduced to a single feeling. In the beginning it was the feeling of "Freedom", then the feeling of "Success", "Wealth", "Abundance", etc.
But each person is very individual, and something else will work for you. It is important for you to find and cultivate this feeling.
Let them largely move the positive feelings and emotions that lead to dreams and they lead away from the negative rather than the negative emotions. This is the answer to the question: how to get rid of problems.
Thinking and avoiding the negative, according to the law of attraction, you attract it more and more. This is how you create new problems in your life.
Material things in themselves never motivate. Motivate those feelings and emotions that donate one or another material object. And if you want a house or a car, understand what feelings lie deep in this material thing. It is this feeling that is the motivation.

3 qualities for success in life

What laws of the universe do you know?
Now I want to talk to you about the key qualities that life requires of a person to succeed.
From my own experience, I have become convinced that success is impossible without these qualities.
Either you develop and succeed, or you can't demand something from life that is worth it.
I believe that there are certain laws in the universe and one must respect and follow these laws. Only in harmony with the world is happiness and wealth achieved. Man has great power, but only in harmony with the power of the universe does he become a creator. He who goes against the laws of the universe loses.
What does life require of a person to achieve success? These are the main laws of the universe: whoever develops these qualities in himself, he will always be in harmony with the universe, it will help this person and guide him in life.
"You have to believe in your idea!"
I believe that every person who has achieved great or medium success in life has believed in his idea!
This faith gives a person great power.
One acquires such unimaginable power and strength that one could not even dream of. Faith and love are the two most powerful positive forces in the universe.
No negative emotion is even close to these two forces!
The problem with people is that instead of believing in the idea, they believe in the wrong truths and suffer for it (For example, many women believe that worthy men do not have and marry the fruits of loneliness, and those who are married have believed, that their husband is not capable of anything, the men believed that they would not succeed)
This is how people have turned one of the most spectacular forces in the world, faith, into destructive ... very unfortunate!
If you are a man, like air, you need to have an idea that you will believe in!
If you are a woman, you need to believe in your husband like air, because without your faith he cannot succeed. And if the man is smart, he will leave the woman who does not believe in him.
Faith works wonders!
But only you choose what miracles you want, positive or negative.

- Perseverance.
Perseverance is the ability to follow your idea, even if everyone around you is interfering
Perseverance does not know moods.
The persistent person follows his idea during frustration, decline, during depression, laziness and other adverse conditions.
Perseverance is a quality that develops!
I was not insistent. As a child, I quickly gave up if I failed. But I learned! It was hard, I was crying, getting up and walking forward.

Examples of persistent people.
Thomas Edison, the inventor of the lamp. He made more than 10,000 failed attempts and succeeded as a result.
Sylvester Stallone, actor. He received more than 1,500 role rejections.
Henry Ford, the creator of the car. He believed to the end that this was possible, even when no one believed in him.
Life always tests a person for perseverance! Always!
You may not have to get 1,500 failures or make 10,000 mistakes, but be prepared to get hundreds of failures and make hundreds of mistakes.
And what do ordinary people do?
They try once-two-three ... - it doesn't work. So this is not theirs ... And they surrender.
How did life test me for perseverance?
I dreamed of freedom.
3 years of trial and error - a complete failure.
I started working in the field of personal growth.
For a whole year, all ideas of gaining freedom failed.
Then came a successful year, and I touched freedom.
After two years of unsuccessful partnership ...
But I gained experience!
Half a year of new trial and error, which turned into 1.5 g of spectacular growth!
They think I did well.
I am sure that everyone will do well, but not everyone is ready to dedicate 5 years of life to trial and error. Everyone wants to be successful now and immediately.
But now we're not talking about me. And I shared this story about myself for you to see the power of perseverance and faith in your idea.
I didn't find my idea right away! It took me the first 3 years of trial and error to figure out my idea.
In difficult times, one learns and gains experience. In successful times, one uses the experience one has gained in difficult times.
Successful times are always based on difficult times.
I am so sorry that people do not realize the importance of hard times and avoid them with all their might. It is at such times that character is tempered. And this character creates life.
I urge you to persevere!
- Patience
Patience is the ability to wait.
Everything has its time!
By taking a step towards your dream every day, you reach it!
Faith + Perseverance + Patience = Happiness + Wealth!

Keep in mind the laws of the universe in your life and they will guide you!

How to become a professional

How to become a professional? There is something that distinguishes professionals from amateurs and losers - these are the qualities of a professional.
Let's talk about athletes!
I divided 4 categories of athletes:
- losers
- amateurs
- professionals
- champions
Such a parallel can be made in life. There are people who also fall into these 4 categories.
The losers are the ones who have given up. They are disappointed in life, in people, in themselves and they don't try anything else and they don't want to try.
Lovers - these are the ones who have a goal, go to that goal, make mistakes and fall.
Professionals are amateurs who have won and achieved their goal.
Champions are professionals who have learned to win in life all the time. Obviously, champions are successful, rich, happy people. They understood how life works and what needs to be done to succeed in it.
Thanks to experience and wisdom, they have learned to always win and also to always achieve their goals.

Who are you?
The biggest problem of the losers is that they are disappointed! They don't try anymore. Everyone around is to blame, but not them.
What can a loser do to move into the amateur category? To believe! Get started!
No one is born a loser.
Also, no one is born a professional and a champion.
Everyone is born an amateur. We all get to know the world in the beginning. But as a result of this knowledge, some are disappointed and move into the category of losers, while others try, try, do not give up, move forward and become professionals. Although, notice that in the life of every person there are difficulties and complexities, but some give up and others move forward.
In one area of ​​life they can be professionals, for example in business, but in another area (relationships) - amateurs or losers.
Well, understand, please, that you become a professional and a champion!
Lovers if they want - do, if they do not want - do not. If they stop doing anything at all, they will fall into the category of losers.
Professionals and champions only have the right to do something!

How to become a professional?
What can an amateur do to move into the category of professionals?
To learn to act in spite of your condition, emotions and feelings.
This is the quality of a professional - the ability to act in any situation, despite everything. This is one of the main qualities that must be developed to become a professional.
What can a professional do to get into the champion category?
To set "impossible" goals and move forward!
Let me set an example so that you can better understand what I am talking about.
I play tennis! And here I am an amateur.
Yes, I play with other amateurs. If I want, I go to trainings, if I don't want to - I don't go. When I go on vacation - I do not go. That is, for amateurs this activity is a hobby.
If I stop going to tennis (at all), I will move into the category of a tennis loser.
If I start training every day, I set a goal to train, despite the "want-I don't want" condition, it will take a year or two and I will start going to tournaments, I will start making money thanks to tennis and I will become a professional.
If I start winning these tournaments, I will become a champion.
If you want to succeed in something, you have to start acting like a professional and acquire the habits of a professional!
If one wants to succeed in business, one must take this issue seriously! You have to invest money, time, a sea of ​​energy. You have to work hard! He must decide to go and understand that there is no going back!
Lovers always have a way back.
People often say that they want to start their own business, they want a lot of money, but they haven't come up with an idea yet. Or they have been thinking about an idea for 3 months now! This is not a professional approach! This is an amateur approach.
Do you know what the professional's approach is?
"I have 72 hours to come up with an idea." Yes, the chances are high that one will not succeed. But he will gain wisdom and try again, but more faithfully.
A woman says she wants a happy family and a wonderful relationship. But now she is alone, she needs money to insure herself, and she has no time for relationships. And, of course, she doesn't do anything about relationships. This is similar to a loser's approach.
Why lie and say "I want"?
A man who wants, he does, in spite of everything!
It is not by chance that a person achieves something in life because he has begun to think, behave and act like a professional.
The level of the professional requires large investments at all levels:
- at the time level. You have to spend a lot of time on the activity in which you want to succeed.
- at the energy level. It takes a lot of effort to work and get results.
- at the level of money. Investments are needed!
I am writing this to you to understand what a professional level means. Develop the qualities of a professional. To achieve it. And it's not just about the business.
This also applies to the family.
A woman must make a lot of effort to get married successfully, and then live happily and in harmony with her husband and children!
To marry successfully, a woman must have a sea of ​​wisdom!
And to keep the family you need an ocean of wisdom!
But losers don't understand that. They don't think about how to become professionals.
They think that these people have succeeded in creating such a successful business or family.
The losers do not see the full amount of work done by the professionals!
And, of course, life rewards professionals!
Many people are not ready for the professional level, because they will have to invest a lot and there is no going back.
The only way is to succeed!
I wish you to decide to become a professional in the field you want!
This solution is already a 50% success!
And it is precisely the solution that distinguishes the loser from the amateur, the amateur from the professional and the professional from the champion.
Yes, and by the way, the ability to think fast and make decisions quickly - these are the qualities of a professional!

How philosophers hurt me

Why are there so many lies about such important things in the world as relationships, money, dreams and desires?
The ancient philosophers said that all pain and all suffering come from desires.
But they did not say that happiness, joy, inspiration and the meaning of life also come from desires. Relationships with a loved one can also bring pain, frustration, but they also bring the most happiness, love and joy.
Desires are the root of all sins, and so on.
What nonsense!
And my faith in this nonsense was strengthened when I made a wrong wish and, of course, it came true. And then the words came to my memory: "All suffering comes from desires ..."
And I finally believed in that nonsense.
Thus, the limitations are introduced into our subconscious.
Thought
+
Experience-based confirmation (sometimes a lump sum is enough)
=
Persuasion
And conviction shapes reality!
You know, now I can say for sure: maybe some wishes will not come true, dreams will not come true and it will hurt and I will be uncomfortable, but it is better than living as long dead.
Yes, a man who wants nothing and strives for nothing is dead.
Bring back your dreams, remember your desires, set more goals and go full.
People stopped wanting and dreaming because the disappointments of unfulfilled dreams and desires became much stronger than the joy of dreams and desires come true. Of course, this will happen if you mentally forget about what you have already accomplished and realized. People consider their success to be something natural and do not pay attention to it at all. I did so and I stopped dreaming about it.
That needs to change! You have to remember your dreams and goals!
It is necessary to have 2 books:
- Your successes, dreams come true and goals achieved
- New dreams, goals, desires
These books need to be worked with.
In the morning you read what needs to happen and motivate yourself to act. In the evening you remember what you have already done and thank him for it.
Yes, in the morning you look at the goals and dreams, and in the evening you give thanks. Your dreams will make you act during the day. And success will help you sleep happily.
Someone says, "My dreams and desires are in my head."
This is not enough. Because when problems come, your head will be jammed with problems and you won't even remember that you have any dreams. And from the sheets (books) that lie on the table, they will not go anywhere. You will open the book and immediately immerse yourself in the world of successes, achievements and victories.
The habit of following your desires is very important. Having this habit in your arsenal, you will never have a problem with motivation. You will always want to. And this desire will make you act.
The problem with people is not that they can't find a way to make the dream come true, the problem is that they forget about the dreams or very rarely think about them. Then this dream gives them some energy and strength to move forward. When the desire is strong enough, no problem will stop a person. And when the desire is strong enough, one will always find a way to fulfill it. There are excuses only when the desire is weak. So pay attention to yourself and what you see. You see your dreams and desires or you see obstacles and find excuses.
As you read your dreams and desires, you will notice how some of them arise in your head during the day. This means that these dreams and desires have a special power and importance. They will serve as your main driving force on the road.
Yes, and remember to write not only material things. Also write about the feelings and emotions you want to feel in life. Let the feelings also become your desires. In fact, all the material things we want, we want them to feel a certain way. Everything material is called to give us feelings.
And the prevailing feelings create the future, where the same feelings prevail. So if the feeling of need is deeply rooted in you, then receiving it, you will want and need something else. And this feeling will haunt you constantly.
Learn to dream and enjoy your achievements. Then the state of joy and happiness will be with you forever.

Do you want to win?

The first thing you need to have if you want to achieve something in life is the desire to win!
Several times I caught myself thinking that I didn't want enough, that's why I was losing. So in life: one does not achieve what one does not want.
I achieved everything I really wanted in life! Of course, I still acted for that!
What I have not yet achieved, I understand that I have not wanted or want enough.
I am sure that in your life you will also notice a similar trend.
You achieve everything you really want!
I believe that for happiness, wealth, abundance and all the best, a person may lack only two things: desire and faith!
Everything else one has in abundance.
Do you know why a person easily achieves what he really wants? Because in order to overcome the desire, such a strong energy is created that it (just like a tsunami) sweeps away all the problems, obstacles and complexities on the road!
When the desire is weak, insurmountable obstacles are created on the road. Although if the desire intensifies, suddenly the "insurmountable" obstacles cease to be obstacles.
Life teaches me to want to win!
I had a very bright period when I achieved the goals and dreams I set for myself. I entered the comfort zone. And here I had to fight to want again!
Some get richer every day because they want more and more, and others get poorer because they want less and less, and then nothing at all.
Many people think that the "search engine" works by itself. One she wants, another she doesn't, and you can't make her. Yes, you can't make her want what she doesn't want. But to strengthen what she wants can and should!
Even if she barely wants it, that desire can intensify.
Imagine a fire that was just beginning to burn. It must ignite! Put paper, dry twigs - and you're done!
And what do people do with their desires? They leave them. And the fire goes out.
You have to take care of the desire. And then to show perseverance and patience. To throw pictures at him, to work with feelings, to create a setting or affirmation. And the desire will "burn"!
I remember as a child how we made the fire "honestly". Matches, paper, twigs. Now everything has become very easy: you buy coal and fuel. You pour, you water, you ignite. The fire is ready.
They have not yet invented "coal" and "fuel" for the desires. You have to do everything honestly: to look for a real desire, to visualize, to feel it, to be filled with joy and to repeat the process!
They ask me: "It is clear that I have to want a lot, but how can I do it?"
Understand that desire is a feeling!
And all feelings, as well as muscles, must be trained!
But they train differently and people don't know how.
To train the muscles, you buy a fitness card (or tennis, or swimming ...) and train.
To train your feelings, you buy a training ticket and study.
People invest money in beauty and health more willingly than in education. But when we talk about building relationships, business, money - a much more important role is played not by beauty and health, but by the way of thinking.
How to develop and strengthen the desire?
The first and most important thing is to believe in your desire! This will breathe life into him!
How to believe?
Say to yourself:
"I believe in myself!"
"I believe in my desire!"
"I want to do it"
"I'm ready to do whatever it takes right now!"
Faith is also a feeling! And if you say "I believe!" Many times, you will believe!
Faith is one of the greatest forces for fulfilling desires.
But faith is always supported only by action!
If a person says, "I believe," but does nothing, then he does not believe, but only lies.
Is there action - is there faith!
Is there no action - no faith!
What will help you?
Imagine the picture of your desire more vividly! Feel it very well! Immerse yourself in this state! Experience it!
Once you open your eyes, you must want to act and achieve your desire.
If relaxation occurs and vice versa, reluctance means that you did not believe and did not feel until the end.
You must not lie about the reality that your desire to win already exists. It is in your imagination, but not in reality! And in order to be able to transfer it from the imagination to reality, you have to work hard!
Good luck with your wishes! 

What kills happiness

What is the universal formula for happiness?
I want to present to you a feeling that destroys a person's life and the person himself.
I write about this feeling because so many people use it.
This feeling is dissatisfaction!
How much of it is in our lives ...
The woman is dissatisfied with the man
The man is dissatisfied with the work.
One is unhappy that not what you planned happened.
Dissatisfied with the amount of money he earns.
Dissatisfied, dissatisfied, dissatisfied ...
People think that dissatisfaction will change the situation, but the paradox is that dissatisfaction will only make the situation worse.
Please remember what you were unhappy about last week?
What to do with dissatisfaction?
There are 2 options:
- to completely remove the object of dissatisfaction from your life
To part with the person you are dissatisfied with, to quit the job you are dissatisfied with, not to communicate with the circle of people who irritate you, etc. However, if the dissatisfaction concerns yourself, this option will not work, because you will not be able to get rid of yourself.
And even if dissatisfaction has become a habit, then the new job and the new partner will solve the situation only for a short time, and then the person will be dissatisfied again.
That's why I offer you the second option!
- Start appreciating!
If you cannot or do not want to remove the object of dissatisfaction from your life, radically change your perception and start appreciating and thanking the object of dissatisfaction. I am 1000% sure that if you look closely, you will find what you are dissatisfied with in one situation or another.
The habit of appreciating is also a habit of being dissatisfied.
Every habit develops through constant repetition.
All situations are neutral. Whether we are satisfied or not depends on the point of view. Change that view! Yes, it will be complicated at first!
Women, start appreciating your men!
Men, start appreciating the money you make now!
Appreciate the work you have.
Appreciate what other people are doing for you.
And to be honest, option 2 is much, much better than option 1, because something is easy to destroy and difficult to create. Option 2 balances the situation.
I have only 1 question left: what is the reason for the dissatisfaction? Why and how did it happen that people decided that dissatisfaction would improve the situation and are in a state of dissatisfaction constantly?
Dissatisfaction is a person's natural reaction when something goes wrong. In life, very often something goes wrong. This is how dissatisfaction arises until it becomes a habit.
When I realized that "not in my script" did not mean worse, and maybe even much better, I began to be more relaxed about the unexpected.
People are used to being motivated by negativity.
Dissatisfaction is a negative feeling. This is how people are motivated to change something in life. Here are the reasons for the dissatisfaction! But the more negativity there is in life, the worse it will be.
Dissatisfaction is a very negative and destructive feeling. It is dangerous to even use it to change something.
So, what can you do to change the habit of being dissatisfied with the habit of being satisfied (happiness formula)?
- Destroy the old pattern of thinking (to be dissatisfied)
- I created a new model of thinking (to be satisfied)
How to destroy any negative pattern of thinking?
I use the "millionaire's tire". This rubber with which the money is wrapped. It is placed on the wrist. And when the old thought that you want to get rid of arises, you immediately hit your hand with this tire. It hurts. But it works!
I just walked with this tire for half a year - I cleared my mind. Then I waved.
I put it on again for a week or two when the unnecessary thoughts came back. Then I used it very rarely. Now I can put it on for a day when I have a bad thought. I remove the thought and remove the eraser.
So far, I have not found a better way to eliminate the cause of dissatisfaction - negative thoughts.
To create a model of thinking "to be happy", you can ask yourself: "What is good in this?" "What am I grateful for?" "What success is there here?"
Change a habit. Depend on changing this habit week!
You don't have to change 5-10 habits right away, otherwise nothing will change in the end.
One week - one habit.
There are 52 weeks in the year. Your life will be completely different!
This is what the formula for happiness looks like.
An important revelation for women: Men do not like dissatisfied women! (and women want to be loved so much).
For men: success does not like dissatisfied men.