I want to tell you about such an important thing as the power of the decision.
I recently called old friends and offered to see them ...
And do you know what I heard from them?
Perhaps!
Or something like that ("I don't know", "probably", "if ..., then ...", "we'll see").
I was so angry.
Not because I won't see them or that they don't appreciate our friendship, I was angry at the human stupidity. I thought: «They behave like that in life too. This is the way to failure! » As one acts in the small, so one acts in the big.
One of the easiest ways to be a loser is to not make decisions.
"Maybe" is the answer of the losers!
Successful people always choose between two options: yes or no.
From the book by Steve Jobs I read, I knew he was. The idea is either wonderful or complete nonsense. Man, in his opinion, is either a genius or an idiot. According to him, there are only 2 extremes.
As long as you make decisions "maybe" or something like that, you will remain a loser.
Learn within 1 minute, a maximum of one day, to make decisions on each issue such as "yes" or "no". Forget about the other options.
Option "maybe"
By "maybe" I also mean similar variants of this answer: "possible", "I don't know", "as it happens" and other ambiguous variants.
"Maybe" blocks the energy of the universe.
"Maybe" blocks your own energy.
By saying "maybe," you leave the task unfulfilled in your head. The task is pending, and the brain does not know what to do with it. To implement it? Or forget it? He does not receive a command from you why the task remains in the memory. Everything that remains in the memory uses your energy.
If you do not make a clear decision on an issue, the issue remains in the memory.
It will be good if there are some deadlines for a task, then with the expiration of this term, the task itself will be removed. And if there are no deadlines? The task remains hanging for the rest of your life ...
Now imagine a man who has not made a decision! His energy, like through a hole, flows out of him.
Imagine that there are many such unresolved decisions.
Do you understand the flow of a person's energy?
Then one gets to the point where he wants nothing. There is no energy. During sleep, some of the energy is restored, but by noon the energy is already gone.
One says, "What can I do to have more energy?"
The whole complexity is that one does not know and does not understand why there is no energy and strength.
It will not help him more energy, because his lifestyle will waste all the energy he has.
Just like the waster: he will spend all the money he has, it doesn't matter if he has BGN 50, BGN 1,000, BGN 100,000 or a million.
The work is not in the energy, the work is in the losses!
Decision making is a habit. Then this habit becomes your pattern of behavior. And the power of the decision will give you energy to make it happen.
Option "Yes"
Strong and powerful energy is needed to accomplish the task!
At the start, the athletes make a sharp movement, which sets the pace of their movement.
This "yes" is precisely this powerful start that gives energy so that you can reach the end.
When you say "Yes", you get the energy you need to start from the universe!
That is why it is so important to say "Yes" clearly and unambiguously.
Option "No"
"No" is a wonderful answer. You immediately give a command to your brain to remove the incoming task and forget it. And you no longer waste time implementing it, considering it, or making subsequent decisions. When you say "No", you don't commit to anything. You do not gain and, most importantly, you do not lose energy now and in the future. "No" is your defense. "No" is also the force of the decision!
Do you know why most people say "maybe"? They are afraid to say no. But when you give a person hope, you will lose when that hope dies. In childhood we were taught to be good, to help people, despite their desires. But they did not explain the consequences. Now I see how older people can't say no. They say "maybe" and you can already hear in their voices that they are also sick of this decision. Their energy begins to run out.
I once read, "No" should be your initial answer. I did not understand what was meant. Whenever someone asked me for something, I was ready to help. And only after a long time did I understand what was meant. And this is exactly what I am writing to you about.
When you say "No", you do not take responsibility, you do not give hope.
"Yes" requires effort, time and work from you.
Saying "No" is much more complicated.
But you, as a successful person, must learn to say "No".
Why are people still afraid to say "No"?
They are afraid to disappoint other people. They are afraid that people will think badly of them.
And you know what I realized: what people think is their problem!
I know that some consider me the most ingenious person they know.
And some consider me a fool. And this is their choice.
I have already gone through the stage of imitating someone and decided to be myself! And that's wonderful.
Only now do I understand that "No" is the only way to follow my destiny!
Everyone wants to hang something of their own on you and give you a task to complete. Your task is to say "No", otherwise the energy given to you by the Universe will dissipate and you will not create anything. You will invest your energy in everything and you will get nothing.
Changing decisions
Some may ask, "What can I do, there are many different factors."
Yes, I absolutely agree!
No one makes you stick to your decision even when you realize it's wrong.
You can change your decisions.
It is important at this point in time to have a clear answer in your head "Yes" or "No".
And it often happens to me that I take on certain projects, then I receive signs from the universe that it is not worth it and I give up. Or vice versa, first I give up, and then the universe pushes me to do so and I decide.
You can make mistakes in your decisions. This is natural, you don't always feel or know the right answer. If you realize that you have made a mistake, you immediately change your mind and either start acting or give up.
Don't be afraid to change your decisions! Remember what gives strength to a decision.
Listen to the heart and feel the universe.
I recently called old friends and offered to see them ...
And do you know what I heard from them?
Perhaps!
Or something like that ("I don't know", "probably", "if ..., then ...", "we'll see").
I was so angry.
Not because I won't see them or that they don't appreciate our friendship, I was angry at the human stupidity. I thought: «They behave like that in life too. This is the way to failure! » As one acts in the small, so one acts in the big.
One of the easiest ways to be a loser is to not make decisions.
"Maybe" is the answer of the losers!
Successful people always choose between two options: yes or no.
From the book by Steve Jobs I read, I knew he was. The idea is either wonderful or complete nonsense. Man, in his opinion, is either a genius or an idiot. According to him, there are only 2 extremes.
As long as you make decisions "maybe" or something like that, you will remain a loser.
Learn within 1 minute, a maximum of one day, to make decisions on each issue such as "yes" or "no". Forget about the other options.
Option "maybe"
By "maybe" I also mean similar variants of this answer: "possible", "I don't know", "as it happens" and other ambiguous variants.
"Maybe" blocks the energy of the universe.
"Maybe" blocks your own energy.
By saying "maybe," you leave the task unfulfilled in your head. The task is pending, and the brain does not know what to do with it. To implement it? Or forget it? He does not receive a command from you why the task remains in the memory. Everything that remains in the memory uses your energy.
If you do not make a clear decision on an issue, the issue remains in the memory.
It will be good if there are some deadlines for a task, then with the expiration of this term, the task itself will be removed. And if there are no deadlines? The task remains hanging for the rest of your life ...
Now imagine a man who has not made a decision! His energy, like through a hole, flows out of him.
Imagine that there are many such unresolved decisions.
Do you understand the flow of a person's energy?
Then one gets to the point where he wants nothing. There is no energy. During sleep, some of the energy is restored, but by noon the energy is already gone.
One says, "What can I do to have more energy?"
The whole complexity is that one does not know and does not understand why there is no energy and strength.
It will not help him more energy, because his lifestyle will waste all the energy he has.
Just like the waster: he will spend all the money he has, it doesn't matter if he has BGN 50, BGN 1,000, BGN 100,000 or a million.
The work is not in the energy, the work is in the losses!
Decision making is a habit. Then this habit becomes your pattern of behavior. And the power of the decision will give you energy to make it happen.
Option "Yes"
Strong and powerful energy is needed to accomplish the task!
At the start, the athletes make a sharp movement, which sets the pace of their movement.
This "yes" is precisely this powerful start that gives energy so that you can reach the end.
When you say "Yes", you get the energy you need to start from the universe!
That is why it is so important to say "Yes" clearly and unambiguously.
Option "No"
"No" is a wonderful answer. You immediately give a command to your brain to remove the incoming task and forget it. And you no longer waste time implementing it, considering it, or making subsequent decisions. When you say "No", you don't commit to anything. You do not gain and, most importantly, you do not lose energy now and in the future. "No" is your defense. "No" is also the force of the decision!
Do you know why most people say "maybe"? They are afraid to say no. But when you give a person hope, you will lose when that hope dies. In childhood we were taught to be good, to help people, despite their desires. But they did not explain the consequences. Now I see how older people can't say no. They say "maybe" and you can already hear in their voices that they are also sick of this decision. Their energy begins to run out.
I once read, "No" should be your initial answer. I did not understand what was meant. Whenever someone asked me for something, I was ready to help. And only after a long time did I understand what was meant. And this is exactly what I am writing to you about.
When you say "No", you do not take responsibility, you do not give hope.
"Yes" requires effort, time and work from you.
Saying "No" is much more complicated.
But you, as a successful person, must learn to say "No".
Why are people still afraid to say "No"?
They are afraid to disappoint other people. They are afraid that people will think badly of them.
And you know what I realized: what people think is their problem!
I know that some consider me the most ingenious person they know.
And some consider me a fool. And this is their choice.
I have already gone through the stage of imitating someone and decided to be myself! And that's wonderful.
Only now do I understand that "No" is the only way to follow my destiny!
Everyone wants to hang something of their own on you and give you a task to complete. Your task is to say "No", otherwise the energy given to you by the Universe will dissipate and you will not create anything. You will invest your energy in everything and you will get nothing.
Changing decisions
Some may ask, "What can I do, there are many different factors."
Yes, I absolutely agree!
No one makes you stick to your decision even when you realize it's wrong.
You can change your decisions.
It is important at this point in time to have a clear answer in your head "Yes" or "No".
And it often happens to me that I take on certain projects, then I receive signs from the universe that it is not worth it and I give up. Or vice versa, first I give up, and then the universe pushes me to do so and I decide.
You can make mistakes in your decisions. This is natural, you don't always feel or know the right answer. If you realize that you have made a mistake, you immediately change your mind and either start acting or give up.
Don't be afraid to change your decisions! Remember what gives strength to a decision.
Listen to the heart and feel the universe.
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