How could it happen that a person loses confidence in the universe?
I decided to write this article after a conversation with a very prosperous woman !. It has a wonderful thriving business. In general, everything is going great. She adores personal growth and development.
The thing is, she's not 100% happy. Success does not bring her joy. She takes them for granted.
And she constantly has the feeling that she is alone. Although there are relationships, there is business, there is a team ...
I had a feeling she didn't trust anyone ... not even the universe.
Exactly! She did not believe in the universe.
Because many times in her life she wanted something, but she didn't get it. And she made the unconscious conclusion that the universe was not her friend. Although it happened many times that he was doing very well, the universe guided her and even saved her, but it was as if she remained convinced that the universe was not a friend, and she did not trust her.
We began to analyze when she lost that trust. She remembered that at school she still believed in the universe. She was different.
Something was wrong at the university.
We found the following event in her life. She studied very well at school. He wanted to go to university. She was preparing a lot for the exam. And she wanted to be the best of them all. Here is a very high goal. She wanted to prove to herself and everyone else that she was the best. The goal was excessive. Even the "bison" do not earn so many points.
As a result, she entered the university, collecting many more points than she needed to achieve her goal.
And she was very upset and disappointed. Instead of rejoicing and being happy about her arrival, she was sad and gloomy. The disappointment was very strong.
This joyful event became the main reason why this woman lost confidence in the universe. She worked so hard, worked so hard (two whole days day and night) to enter, but did not achieve her goal! Crash and disappointment.
When we worked with her, she admitted that she had set such a high goal because of her self-esteem. She was laughed at a lot at school and she decided to prove that she was smart. Here is your goal. Although, of course, she now admits that this goal was because of her ego. She decided to prove to others that she was better. She dreamed of bragging to her friends that she had scored so many points that she was the best and smartest.
Of course, such desires (which emanate from the ego), the universe does not fulfill!
And she offended the universe!
If then she had also understood the consequences of her distrust of the universe ....
And now let's follow the chain of events, how this woman's life was arranged.
Because she was very smart and not like everyone else, her classmates laughed.
She took it personally, concluding that something was wrong with her.
This is where the problems with her self-esteem began.
Low self-esteem made her prove something over and over again.
The universe does not promote the fulfillment of desires emanating from the Ego, moreover, if the fulfillment of this desire can harm others (she wanted to brag and rejoice, to avenge them for the fact that they laughed at her, that it is stupid).
She set a very high goal and did not achieve it.
Because she did not achieve it, she lost confidence in the universe.
Losing confidence in the universe, she partially lost touch with it. Since then, everything has been given to her with great effort. She stopped enjoying life. She devoted herself entirely to work. She was not even happy with her success at work.
And what are these successes for, if they do not bring joy?
What good is money to her if it doesn't bring her joy?
Look at your life now! Do you see similar patterns of thinking?
Maybe you want to prove to others or to others that you are worth something?
Maybe they laughed at you too because you were different, and you concluded that something was wrong with you?
Maybe you don't believe in the universe because it didn't fulfill your wish?
Please understand that the universe is not to blame.
The point is in your perception of the situation.
And while you misperceive life and the events of your own life, you are doomed to unhappiness.
Change your thinking - the world around you will change!
I decided to write this article after a conversation with a very prosperous woman !. It has a wonderful thriving business. In general, everything is going great. She adores personal growth and development.
The thing is, she's not 100% happy. Success does not bring her joy. She takes them for granted.
And she constantly has the feeling that she is alone. Although there are relationships, there is business, there is a team ...
I had a feeling she didn't trust anyone ... not even the universe.
Exactly! She did not believe in the universe.
Because many times in her life she wanted something, but she didn't get it. And she made the unconscious conclusion that the universe was not her friend. Although it happened many times that he was doing very well, the universe guided her and even saved her, but it was as if she remained convinced that the universe was not a friend, and she did not trust her.
We began to analyze when she lost that trust. She remembered that at school she still believed in the universe. She was different.
Something was wrong at the university.
We found the following event in her life. She studied very well at school. He wanted to go to university. She was preparing a lot for the exam. And she wanted to be the best of them all. Here is a very high goal. She wanted to prove to herself and everyone else that she was the best. The goal was excessive. Even the "bison" do not earn so many points.
As a result, she entered the university, collecting many more points than she needed to achieve her goal.
And she was very upset and disappointed. Instead of rejoicing and being happy about her arrival, she was sad and gloomy. The disappointment was very strong.
This joyful event became the main reason why this woman lost confidence in the universe. She worked so hard, worked so hard (two whole days day and night) to enter, but did not achieve her goal! Crash and disappointment.
When we worked with her, she admitted that she had set such a high goal because of her self-esteem. She was laughed at a lot at school and she decided to prove that she was smart. Here is your goal. Although, of course, she now admits that this goal was because of her ego. She decided to prove to others that she was better. She dreamed of bragging to her friends that she had scored so many points that she was the best and smartest.
Of course, such desires (which emanate from the ego), the universe does not fulfill!
And she offended the universe!
If then she had also understood the consequences of her distrust of the universe ....
And now let's follow the chain of events, how this woman's life was arranged.
Because she was very smart and not like everyone else, her classmates laughed.
She took it personally, concluding that something was wrong with her.
This is where the problems with her self-esteem began.
Low self-esteem made her prove something over and over again.
The universe does not promote the fulfillment of desires emanating from the Ego, moreover, if the fulfillment of this desire can harm others (she wanted to brag and rejoice, to avenge them for the fact that they laughed at her, that it is stupid).
She set a very high goal and did not achieve it.
Because she did not achieve it, she lost confidence in the universe.
Losing confidence in the universe, she partially lost touch with it. Since then, everything has been given to her with great effort. She stopped enjoying life. She devoted herself entirely to work. She was not even happy with her success at work.
And what are these successes for, if they do not bring joy?
What good is money to her if it doesn't bring her joy?
Look at your life now! Do you see similar patterns of thinking?
Maybe you want to prove to others or to others that you are worth something?
Maybe they laughed at you too because you were different, and you concluded that something was wrong with you?
Maybe you don't believe in the universe because it didn't fulfill your wish?
Please understand that the universe is not to blame.
The point is in your perception of the situation.
And while you misperceive life and the events of your own life, you are doomed to unhappiness.
Change your thinking - the world around you will change!
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