How to get rid of fear

How to get rid of fear - quickly and forever?
Fear is man's main enemy!
It is precisely fear that prevents a person from acting when necessary.
Fear prevents you from finishing the old and starting a new one.
Fear is the "killer" of dreams!
Do you agree?
I do not agree!
Fear can be your best friend!
It is fear that shows a person the right path.
Exactly what a person is most afraid of, he must do!
Fear helps a person to grow and develop!
Fear motivates you to act and move forward!
And does your fear stop you or speed you up?
You know, before, like other people, fear stopped me!
But then I realized the secret!
And since then, fear has helped me!
And here's the secret:
You don't have to fight fear!
You will never beat him that way. You will only lose your strength, and the fear will become even stronger.
You should not get rid of it and ignore it.
When I started working on personal growth, I read in books about how to get rid of fear. And I found the answer: you must act in spite of fear. Yes, it's effective theirs, but try ..
It was hard for me!
And I started looking for my own way. And I found it!
Fear must be accepted!
Everything that fear tells you you have to accept!
You must have a single answer to everything that fear draws and "tells" you. And that answer is "good."
Fear will tell you: "There will be nothing to live with!", "You will lose everything you have", "You will be poor", "This will be a failure" ...
And you have to accept all these answers and say "okay."
At this point, the fear loses its power!
People think that once you agree, it will happen in life. To be honest, it never happened to me! And people begin to object to fear, they start arguing and arguing, but the more they fight and resist, the stronger the fear becomes and absorbs a person's will.
Has it ever occurred to you that the more you resist fear, the stronger it becomes?
Fear is a part of you!
And the more you resist, the more you ignite conflict inside you! You fight with yourself. And the more you fight, the more you lose.
Resistance and struggle are not the best advisor in how to get rid of that fear.
That's why don't waste your energy on fighting with yourself.
Just agree right away.
So, the first step is to accept the fear.
The second step is to focus on the goals.
The third step is to draw up an action plan.
The fourth step is to take the first step!
The fifth step is to continue the steps!
With each new step, fear will lose its power! In the beginning, of course, he will resist and tell you even more terrible arguments to provoke you into confrontation. And your task is to repeat "well" and do what you have planned!
Learn to agree with your fear!
And keep acting.
I read in the books that you have to act despite the fear, but I couldn't figure out how?
There was a constant war in my head.
While I was asking myself the question "How to get rid of fear?" the answer was nearby.
When I realized that I did not have to fight and resist, I gained peace.
The model is very simple: you do what you have planned and you agree with everything that fear tells you!
And do you know what's amazing?
When he realizes that you are constantly ignoring him and you always agree, he will stop talking to you.
To be honest, I did not get rid of the fear 100%, it still lives in me.
But now we are friends. When he suddenly appears, I thank him and say "okay."
Instead of thinking about how to get rid of fear - just make friends with it!
Life alone will not change! Only you can change something! Everything is in your hands! If you don't like what you have now, it's time to make new decisions! 

How do life's priorities create life?

What are life priorities?
Have you thought about what is really important to you?
What are your priorities in life?
It doesn't matter if you think about it or not, the brain has in any case arranged these priorities for itself. If you understand the sequence correctly, you control the work of your brain and your life, if not - then your brain controls you and your life.
What am I talking about?
What is more important to you:
- money or family?
- free time or a sense of self-importance?
- happiness or peace?
- leisure or business / work?
- personal growth or travel?
What are your life priorities?
- Freedom (free time)
- Happiness
- Self-realization
- Joy
"Delight."
- Calm down
- Good luck
- Reliability
- Comfort
- Passion
- Cosiness
.... (you can add any feelings you think are necessary)
What areas of life are there?
Business / career / job
Money
Family (woman / man, children)
Travel
Friends / acquaintances
Health (beauty, energy, sports)
Material goods
Rest / Entertainment
Personal growth and development
... (you can add any areas you deem necessary)
And now to understand how priorities affect a person's life:
Imagine a man with such priorities:
1. Money. 2. Business. 3. Entertainment. 4. Recreation. 5. Health. 6. Family
....
What do you think will happen to his family? Rather not at all.
How do you think it will be with the money? Yes, he will have money. And, given the second priority, there will be more business (of course, if for this man in the first place are the feelings that correspond to the businessman)
Imagine, please, a woman with the following priority areas:
1. Family. 2. Health. 3. Personal growth. 4. Work. 5. Travel. 6. Rest.
Obviously, such a woman will have a good family. She will be healthy and beautiful. She will also be wise because she will be concerned with personal growth.
However, money may not be good. It doesn't matter, because the man will provide for the family.
Do you see how life's priorities define life?
But !!!
Women can say: «I do not agree! And for me, family comes first. However, I have no family! »
The men will say in response: "For me, business comes first, but I have not created my own business so far."
Others will say: "Money is the number one priority, but I have no money ..."
I will answer these questions. Everything is very easy.
First of all, I will not agree that for a person something can come first, and it will not exist. This means only one thing: what a person thinks and what is in reality are completely different things. She thinks family comes first, when in fact it doesn't. Reality always shows the truth!
Here is what is most likely to happen to this woman: she says that the family comes first and she sits at work all day. Obviously, work comes first for her.
Priorities are not what you want to be, or think is a priority. The priority is how much time and energy you spend on a particular area.
Second, the important thing is that a certain priority area corresponds to the necessary priority feelings.
If for a man the field of business is in the first place, then the feeling of calm cannot be in the first place with him! Business and relationships are built on calm.
The man says that money comes first with him, but he doesn't have it ...
If we look at his life, it turns out that he has been working at the same job for 5 years, he receives 1000-3000 BGN per month and he knows perfectly well that he will not earn more! And he continues to work on that job.
This means that his feelings of calm and comfort come first, and these are not the feelings you need for money at all!
Of course, he will say: "How can I leave the job, I have to pay loans!"
But that does not change the essence of things.
That's how easy everything is!
And here's another important thing:
You choose a priority, then you develop the feelings that are needed for that priority!
If you do not develop feelings, but let everything go by itself, then life's priorities are built by themselves, and life flows randomly. It turns out that you think one thing, and the result is another.
Your feelings rule your life.
7 years ago, when I was poor, I went to work, I put business in priority. I had a lot of fears, I don't like to go outside the comfort zone, I was soft, I really appreciated the peace and harmony, etc.
But I understood that business requires courage, the ability to step out of the comfort zone, firmness, determination, action, etc.
I began to develop these qualities, I began to do what I feared, and as a result, everything happened.
Everyone says they want a lot of money, but only a few do what corresponds to big money. The others leave everything immediately or gradually and justify themselves.
Some women look for the man of their dreams, despite all the disappointments and failures, forgive, endure, build relationships, and others simply say: "All decent men are already busy ..." - and that is, they have nothing to do.
They justify their failure and are free.
One can always justify oneself, but the result will not get better.
Only units are ready for real personal growth!
Life is the best teacher, but it teaches painfully and cruelly. And you often need an assistant teacher to help you learn from life!
Are you ready for real personal growth?
The key word here is "growth"! And growth is never comfortable!
There is always a force of friction that hinders growth. Only the strong can withstand it and move forward.
Successful people are creative people. They create what they want. Unsuccessful people are people who wait and hope.
I never understood "hope." It doesn't make sense!
Either you believe and create, or it doesn't exist.
Take your life in your hands!
Nothing will change until you stand up and change that! Yes, it will be hard, it will hurt a lot emotionally, but I assure you that you will win!
And the victory is worth it!
He is not looking for easy ways. They lead to the "dump". They just start in the "elite areas", and it seems that everything will be so. But sooner or later they will take you to the "dump"!
The hard roads start in the "dump" or lead through the "dump" and look very awful, but always lead to the "elite areas" of life!
There is power in you! There is potential in you! You already have everything!
You can achieve what you see in your imagination. Otherwise you wouldn't have seen it.
Thanks to the imagination, the universe shows you one of the possible lines of your future life. But whether this line will become yours, you decide here and now!
Only you decide whether you will allow the universe to help you. Or you will come up with one of the millions of excuses why not now.
You decide! This is your life! And your life priorities!

Forget about the problems!

How to get rid of problems?
Why do you think people are more inclined to think about problems than about dreams and goals?
Why do people think more about how to get rid of loans than how to make money? Although if a person makes money, he will get rid of the loans.
Why do parents protect the child more than motivate him for new achievements?
Why do so many people in a relationship blame their loved ones more than they rejoice and appreciate what the partner is doing?
And everything is very easy:
Our brain works on certain principles! And one of its basic principles is to save lives and protect people!
And that is why it is much more important for our brain to avoid pain (including emotional pain) than to gain joy.
Our brain always strives to think about what causes the most emotions and feelings. And it doesn't matter if it evokes positive and negative emotions.
Therefore, since problems to one degree or another pose a danger to a person, our brain thinks more, the brain thinks exactly about the problems.
People are thinking about how to get rid of problems and looking for ways to get rid of problems!
And not about the ways to realize dreams and desires.
Yes, for our brain, safety is more important than happiness and wealth.
But I have a question for you: who is the boss in the house? You or your brain?
Despite his priority for safety over everything else, he obeys you.
You and your brain are different things.
And you can make him do what you need him to do, including go into danger for happiness and wealth.
How to make it?
The easiest way is to make a decision! Strong emotional decision!
Also, our brain has great flexibility. It can be readjusted and changed. That's why you can change the natural priorities for your brain! This is exactly what the rich and happy people did. They put wealth and happiness above safety! They have learned to do what is scary for them and to step out of their comfort zone. The ability to act, despite fear, can develop!
What do you need to achieve happiness and wealth?
To ignite the positive emotions associated with dreams, goals and desires, brighter than the negative emotions associated with fear and safety.
You have to learn to want harder than to be afraid.
The positive emotions associated with dreams and goals need to be stronger than the negative ones associated with fear.
When motivation is strong, problems don't matter!
How to do this?
To train to want!
To train to keep the attention on dreams and goals.
Problems will throw you off balance! They will grab your attention, but you have to put it back on your dreams and goals!
Daily activities and routine will also focus on the little things and kill your motivation, but it is important to learn to return to your dreams and goals.
First find something you really want!
And then learn to go back to thinking about it!
What has always worked for me?
Given that I perceive the world through feelings, my motivation has always been reduced to a single feeling. In the beginning it was the feeling of "Freedom", then the feeling of "Success", "Wealth", "Abundance", etc.
But each person is very individual, and something else will work for you. It is important for you to find and cultivate this feeling.
Let them largely move the positive feelings and emotions that lead to dreams and they lead away from the negative rather than the negative emotions. This is the answer to the question: how to get rid of problems.
Thinking and avoiding the negative, according to the law of attraction, you attract it more and more. This is how you create new problems in your life.
Material things in themselves never motivate. Motivate those feelings and emotions that donate one or another material object. And if you want a house or a car, understand what feelings lie deep in this material thing. It is this feeling that is the motivation.

3 qualities for success in life

What laws of the universe do you know?
Now I want to talk to you about the key qualities that life requires of a person to succeed.
From my own experience, I have become convinced that success is impossible without these qualities.
Either you develop and succeed, or you can't demand something from life that is worth it.
I believe that there are certain laws in the universe and one must respect and follow these laws. Only in harmony with the world is happiness and wealth achieved. Man has great power, but only in harmony with the power of the universe does he become a creator. He who goes against the laws of the universe loses.
What does life require of a person to achieve success? These are the main laws of the universe: whoever develops these qualities in himself, he will always be in harmony with the universe, it will help this person and guide him in life.
"You have to believe in your idea!"
I believe that every person who has achieved great or medium success in life has believed in his idea!
This faith gives a person great power.
One acquires such unimaginable power and strength that one could not even dream of. Faith and love are the two most powerful positive forces in the universe.
No negative emotion is even close to these two forces!
The problem with people is that instead of believing in the idea, they believe in the wrong truths and suffer for it (For example, many women believe that worthy men do not have and marry the fruits of loneliness, and those who are married have believed, that their husband is not capable of anything, the men believed that they would not succeed)
This is how people have turned one of the most spectacular forces in the world, faith, into destructive ... very unfortunate!
If you are a man, like air, you need to have an idea that you will believe in!
If you are a woman, you need to believe in your husband like air, because without your faith he cannot succeed. And if the man is smart, he will leave the woman who does not believe in him.
Faith works wonders!
But only you choose what miracles you want, positive or negative.

- Perseverance.
Perseverance is the ability to follow your idea, even if everyone around you is interfering
Perseverance does not know moods.
The persistent person follows his idea during frustration, decline, during depression, laziness and other adverse conditions.
Perseverance is a quality that develops!
I was not insistent. As a child, I quickly gave up if I failed. But I learned! It was hard, I was crying, getting up and walking forward.

Examples of persistent people.
Thomas Edison, the inventor of the lamp. He made more than 10,000 failed attempts and succeeded as a result.
Sylvester Stallone, actor. He received more than 1,500 role rejections.
Henry Ford, the creator of the car. He believed to the end that this was possible, even when no one believed in him.
Life always tests a person for perseverance! Always!
You may not have to get 1,500 failures or make 10,000 mistakes, but be prepared to get hundreds of failures and make hundreds of mistakes.
And what do ordinary people do?
They try once-two-three ... - it doesn't work. So this is not theirs ... And they surrender.
How did life test me for perseverance?
I dreamed of freedom.
3 years of trial and error - a complete failure.
I started working in the field of personal growth.
For a whole year, all ideas of gaining freedom failed.
Then came a successful year, and I touched freedom.
After two years of unsuccessful partnership ...
But I gained experience!
Half a year of new trial and error, which turned into 1.5 g of spectacular growth!
They think I did well.
I am sure that everyone will do well, but not everyone is ready to dedicate 5 years of life to trial and error. Everyone wants to be successful now and immediately.
But now we're not talking about me. And I shared this story about myself for you to see the power of perseverance and faith in your idea.
I didn't find my idea right away! It took me the first 3 years of trial and error to figure out my idea.
In difficult times, one learns and gains experience. In successful times, one uses the experience one has gained in difficult times.
Successful times are always based on difficult times.
I am so sorry that people do not realize the importance of hard times and avoid them with all their might. It is at such times that character is tempered. And this character creates life.
I urge you to persevere!
- Patience
Patience is the ability to wait.
Everything has its time!
By taking a step towards your dream every day, you reach it!
Faith + Perseverance + Patience = Happiness + Wealth!

Keep in mind the laws of the universe in your life and they will guide you!